GOODBYES

now certainly this topic seems to talk about hurting and tears. Parting is such a sorrowful phenomenon everyone's trying to avoid, or somehow the last thing they'd ever do (well unless your'e with an unemployed boyfriend who's a douche bag).
 As my friend Richard Bach  one said

 "Don't be dismayed at goodbyes.  A farewell is necessary before you can meet again.  And meeting again, after moments or lifetime, is certain for those who are friends."

 but with this topic, i want to focus more on the GOODBYES of Lovers. such a torment to individuals who promised each other FOREVER and yet ended with NEVER. 
i faced numerous goodbyes in my life, but nothing like this today. nothing as HARD as today. nothing as DIFFICULT as today. well i can't really say much about this GOODBYE  for now, imma tell u as soon as everything's settled.as the line goes in Annie,

 "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard."

but still saying goodbye to a person who you made your life, who you treasured so much, and who you have been sharing your success and failures will perhaps be a death to my heart and mind. well a temporary death i may say.


and mind you, it only takes another POWERFUL SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU INTENSELY to relive your dying heart, to regain the strength to move on.
gone are the days of diversional activities. the more you distract yourself with work, the more pressure your heart and mind exerts just to remind you that they are dying.
i dont believe in not recovering for such a long time. it only needs a day or 3 to get that stinging thorn that aches your heart.


well i say, TAKE THE PAIN, FEEL IT, SUFFER A BIT, CRY IT OUT, SHOUT, AND THEN COMPOSE YOURSELF. GO OUT OF THE BED, SHOP! PLAY! AND MOVE ON!


a good movie for you would be DEAR JOHN

best line in the movie said by John: "So there's something else I wanna tell you. Right before everything went black, you wanna know the very last thing that entered my mind? YOU."


Goodbyes are not forever.
Goodbyes are not the end.
They simply mean I'll miss you
Until we meet again!!


comment below your latest GOODBYE moments, how you took the pain and how you moved on. or just simply what is GOODBYE for you. ill be waitin luv!